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She ghosted you and you don’t know why: a guy’s guide to understanding women (ii)

Many ladies (and men) ghost the people they are seeing for a myriad of reasons. I will be the first person to say that it is not right because it is not fair to leave someone in the lurch. 

However, ghosting is a very common practice. If you are one such man who has been ghosted then you are probably plagued by the thoughts of ‘why’. 

In the first part of this article, I shared three (3) possible reasons a lady would ghost you and now it is time to see more.

1. You were too serious

Some ladies are out to have a fling or are looking for a rebound but unfortunately, the guys they meet want something more serious. Unwilling to handle that kind of commitment, they disappear.

2. Your values don’t match

The point of the first few dates is trying to get to know each other, much like attending a job interview to know if you are fit for the job. Perhaps, during this phase of the relationship, she discovered that you two were not a good fit because of differences in ideology. 

3. She had personal issues to deal with

Sometimes, life throws itself at us and we are unable to recover quickly. You never know, maybe she had a lot on her plate and didn’t deliberately ghost you. She was probably struggling with work, family or other personal problems and so you were not a priority for her, in the face of all those things.

Now, that you understand better the reasons why some ladies ghost men, you may be wondering what you should do after you have been ghosted.

Well, you can’t force the relationship. If someone does not want to be with you and does not have the curtsy to tell you that then, you should absolutely move on.

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