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8 things to consider when dating someone with kids (ii)

Here is the second article we promised to bring to the table of our ladies out there who are dating men with kids. It is really tasking and demanding. 

A lot needs to be done and considered. And when done right, things will go right. 

At this juncture, let us round off our discussion as we consider some more. 

Willingness to do what he asks sows you love the family

At times, it will be difficult for him to pick the children after the school’s activities. And this will mean that you will be the very next person to call on to do this task for him. You should be willing to do with your whole heart. 

You will always come second

whether you like it or not, a guy with kids cherishes the kids more than the relationship he is into with you. Therefore, the kids will be his primary responsibilities before you. This means that you have planned for anything with him, possibly an outing, and suddenly his attention is needed at his children’s school, don’t be surprised and annoyed if he turns yours down.

Your impression matters to the kids

If the guy feels it is the right time to take you home and introduce you to his kids, then be ready to impress them. This is like an exam; and for it to be passed, your impressions matter a lot. If you had not been making good impressions, now is the right time to ask people who know how to do it better and learn from them. 

Never try to replace the position of their mother

For psychological reasons,you are advised never to replace their mom’s position. They will never allow this and don’t be surprised if they act in a manner you do not expect. 

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Kingdavid8 Jan 25

What about Dating A Lady With A Kid?

LG251 Dec 01 2019

Thanks for the best advice

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